
Out of sudden, i received a call from my partner and got blame for not answering a call and not returning a missed call. She was rather harsh on the phone which i admit i made a mistake that i should not ignore the missed call as a cupcake seller. But , does she need to be so harsh on the phone? Why she never think she have to bear some responsibilities as well? She can divert the caller to call me, why can't she simply sms me & alert me on her divert call. Then i'll be alert and definitely will not ignore the missed call.
My mind is shut off over the weekend for cupcake supply as i was not feeling well and also my daughter is not feeling well too. Besides, i was thinking we can't accept any cupcake order since my partner is away. She know very well on this that any order must be done by both of us. She never give me chance to explain and never try to understand my situation.
Sometime, i realise she rather blunt to her friends and never try to understand other people's situation. She always think she is right, she always think she is the best, she sacrifice a lot for the biz..etc. Am i always sitting there to share the profit?? I am not, i worked hard too. Did i ever tell around how much i sacrifice. No doubt most deals are done by her that doesn't mean im useless. Why is she so mean to tell me..'i don't expect you to close the deal'! Is really hurt.
After this incident, i realise is not easy to work with her as she always think she is the best ..she always wants to be the winner and demanding.
I'm swear that i never say such a harsh statement to my closed friends becos i do concern how people feel.
Nevertheless, i learned my lesson and know more about this friend of mine. She always said Im her closest friend and yet she never bother my feeling and simply hurt me directly. Is this call closed friend. A closed friend should understand each other and not blaming without understanding..